Make Your Lover Beg for Mercy

Prolonged foreplay is vastly underrated as an amazing sexual experience in its own right. The big mistake most men and women make with foreplay is to think it's something you do before sex really begins.

But it's not.

If you do it the right way, prolonged foreplay actually becomes the sex act -- and it can be just as satisfying as if not actually more satisfying than intercourse itself.

How do you do it?

Well, the secret to success with this is using the mind. After all, it's long been an established fact that your biggest sex-organ is the one between your ears. If you can pile on the sexual tension for long enough in someone's imagination, then you can have them right on the point of orgasm and hold them there for as long as you like.

And there's nothing quite like being held on the edge of orgasm to make your toes curl whether you're a man or a woman.

So the first thing to do to engage your partner's mind is engage your voice.

How?

By talking dirty to them.

Everyone's done this at some point or other in their life, but most people do it without really thinking about it. See, men and women are different.

So, if you're teasing a man, he's more likely going to get turned on by you telling him you're going to use him for your own pleasure and make him wait to cum. Or, alternatively, take him through a fantasy where you have him tied to a chair and you're making him watch you with another man (or woman). Obviously, if you know of any other fantasy he has, then use that one instead.

But if you're a man teasing a woman, then you generally want to be more aggressive and dominating in your words. No, you're not going to hurt her or get her scared, but you are going to tell her you're going to ravish her and make her beg for your member.

And she will, believe us.

All the while you're doing this you want to be touching and kissing and licking, maybe teasing with high end sex toys like luxury vibrators. In fact everything but full penetration. Because once you start, you won't want to stop -- and we're talking about foreplay here.

Truth is, if you get this prolonged foreplay right, you'll often find you don't need the full sex -- because you both cum before you can get started (and even if you do get started, neither of you last very long at all).

It's all about experimentation and exploration.